As a parent, you may have experienced the joy and excitement of bringing your toddler to a family gathering, only to find them becoming overwhelmed and distressed. This can be frustrating and stressful for both you and your child. With Memorial Day and its family barbecues to kick off summer right around the corner, here are ways to help your toddler manage their emotions and enjoy family gatherings without feeling overwhelmed.
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Validate their feelings
Even if you don't agree with why your toddler is upset, acknowledging their feelings can help them feel heard and understood. For example, you might say, "I see that you're feeling really angry right now. That must be really hard."
Sometimes, toddlers just need to feel comforted and reassured. Offer a hug, hold their hand, or offer them a blanket or stuffed animal to hold.
Give them space
While it's important to be present for your child during a meltdown, it's also important to give them space to work through their emotions. You might sit nearby, but allow them to have some time to calm down on their own.
While it can be tempting to punish or threaten consequences during a meltdown, this can often make the situation worse. Instead, focus on de-escalating the situation and addressing the root cause of their upset.
Be patient and flexible
Meltdowns can be unpredictable and can happen at any time. Be patient with your child and remember that this is a normal part of their development. Be flexible and willing to adjust your approach to best meet their needs in the moment.